you chose CX - your Enneagram type is TWO.
"I must help others"
Helpers are warm, concerned, nurturing, and sensitive to other people's needs.
How to Get Along with Me
- Tell me that you appreciate me. Be specific.
- Share fun times with me.
- Take an interest in my problems, though I will probably try to focus on yours.
- Let me know that I am important and special to you.
- Be gentle if you decide to criticize me.
What I Like About Being a Two
- being able to relate easily to people and to make friends
- knowing what people need and being able to make their lives better
- being generous, caring, and warm
- being sensitive to and perceptive about others' feelings
- being enthusiastic and fun-loving, and having a good sense of humor
What's Hard About Being a Two
- not being able to say no
- having low self-esteem
- feeling drained from overdoing for others
- not doing things I really like to do for myself for fear of being selfish
- criticizing myself for not feeling as loving as I think I should
- being upset that others don't tune in to me as much as I tume in to them
- working so hard to be tactful and considerate that I suppress my real feelings
Twos as Children Often
- are very sensitive to disapproval and criticism
- try hard to please their parents by being helpful and understanding
- are outwardly compliant
- are popular or try to be popular with other children
- act coy, precocious, or dramatic in order to get attention
- are clowns and jokers (the more extroverted Twos), or quiet and shy (the more introverted Twos)
Twos as Parents
- are good listeners, love their children unconditionally, and are warm and encouraging (or suffer guilt if they aren't)
- are often playful with their children
- wonder: "Am I doing it right?" "Am I giving enough?" "Have I caused irreparable damage?"
- can become fiercely protective
Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele
The Enneagram Made Easy Discover the 9 Types of People HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages |
you might want to link to the specific test. the link you have now takes you to several options, some of which are not exactly family friendly.
Posted by: elisabeth | April 10, 2006 at 12:49 AM
I had the exact same problem when trying to get this onto my site. It took several tries just to get the link right :/
I like that you highlighted the ones you feel most describe you. And its funny, I related to many of those descriptions too - Who am I???? LOL
Glad you liked the test.
Deb
Posted by: Deb | April 10, 2006 at 08:22 AM
I ended up going to Deb's site and linking from there because I couldn't find the test.
I'm the same as you Athena!
I would highlight different ones than you did however. Like "Be gentle if you are going to criticize me" or "have low self esteem"
:)
Posted by: deeapaulitan | April 10, 2006 at 09:52 AM
I something different from you but thought a lot of yours applied to me too.
Posted by: Mommy22Ss | April 10, 2006 at 10:11 PM